Memorial Day…It’s Not Really a Celebration

Lukas Gojda /
Lukas Gojda /

On the last Monday of May, Americans observe Memorial Day, a federal holiday that honors the U.S. military personnel who died while serving in the armed forces. This year, it falls on May 29. But do we understand what the day means? Do we appreciate the sacrifice of those who gave their lives for our country and our freedom? Or do we treat it as another day off, a chance to have fun, shop, or grill?

Memorial Day is not a celebration. It is a solemn occasion to pay tribute to the brave men and women who died in uniform from the Civil War to the present day. It is a day to remember their courage, patriotism, and legacy.

The Origins of Memorial Day

In the late 1860s, people around the United States began attending annual memorial services in the spring to honor the nation’s war dead by placing flowers and flags on their graves. In 1868, the first national observance of what was then called Decoration Day took place at Arlington National Cemetery, where former Union General and future President James Garfield gave a speech, and 5,000 participants adorned the graves of 20,000 Civil War soldiers.

As the years went by, Decoration Day gradually became a more inclusive commemoration of the fallen heroes of all U.S. wars, not just the Civil War. Memorial Day became more popular and widely used after World War II. In 1971, Congress passed the Uniform Monday Holiday Act, which established Memorial Day as a federal holiday and moved it from its traditional date of May 30 to the last Monday in May. This change created a three-day weekend for many Americans, who often use it to travel, visit family, or enjoy outdoor activities.

The True Meaning of Memorial Day

Sadly, some people have lost sight of the true meaning of the day. They see it as the unofficial start of summer rather than a day of remembrance and gratitude. This is not what our fallen heroes deserve. They deserve our respect, our reverence, and our recognition. They deserve our solemn pledge never to forget their sacrifice and to uphold the values they fought for.

So this Memorial Day, let us pause and reflect on the cost of our freedom. Let us visit the cemeteries or memorials where our fallen heroes rest. Let us fly the American flag at half-staff until noon and then raise it to full-staff as a symbol of our resolve. Let us observe a national moment of silence at 3:00 p.m. local time. Let us thank the families of those who gave their lives for our country. And let us pray for the safety and well-being of those still serving in harm’s way.

Memorial Day is more than just a holiday. It is a day of honor, mourning, and gratitude. It is a day to remember and pay tribute to those who gave their lives for our country and freedom. It is a day to cherish and defend the liberty they secured for us.